When someone you know passes away, your first instinct is to offer encouragement, help, and support to those affected — but you may not be sure what to say or do. It’s okay to feel this way.
Does it matter what I wear? Can I bring the children? What should I say to the family of the deceased? When should I visit? Palmyra Home for Funerals & Life Memorial Services offers guidance on the proper etiquette of visitations and funerals, so you’ll feel more comfortable and prepared for attending services.
WHAT TO SAY
When someone you know passes away, your first instinct is to offer encouragement, help, and support to those affected — but you may not be sure what to say or do. It’s okay to feel this way. Does it matter what I wear? Can I bring the children? What should I say to the family of the deceased? When should I visit? Palmyra Home for Funerals & Life Memorial Services offers guidance on the proper etiquette of visitations and funerals, so you’ll feel more comfortable and prepared for attending services
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WHAT NOT TO SAY
When someone you know passes away, your first instinct is to offer encouragement, help, and support to those affected — but you may not be sure what to say or do. It’s okay to feel this way.
Does it matter what I wear? Can I bring the children? What should I say to the family of the deceased? When should I visit? Palmyra Home for Funerals & Life Memorial Services offers guidance on the proper etiquette of visitations and funerals, so you’ll feel more comfortable and prepared for attending services.
WHAT TO SAY
When someone you know passes away, your first instinct is to offer encouragement, help, and support to those affected — but you may not be sure what to say or do. It’s okay to feel this way. Does it matter what I wear? Can I bring the children? What should I say to the family of the deceased? When should I visit? Palmyra Home for Funerals & Life Memorial Services offers guidance on the proper etiquette of visitations and funerals, so you’ll feel more comfortable and prepared for attending services
WHAT NOT TO SAY
Try not to give comments that minimize the loss, such as “It’s probably for the best, because he was suffering too much,” or “I’ve been in your shoes myself.” These will not provide comfort to the bereaved. Wait for the family to discuss the cause of death. Do not bring it up yourself.
WHAT TO WEAR
When attending a memorial service or funeral, dress in dark and subdued colors, such as dark blues, grays, browns, and black. Be sure to dress simply and conservatively. Men are encouraged to wear a jacket and tie paired with dress shoes, while women should choose either a dress or a suit. Any jewelry should be subtle and traditional.
ARRIVING
When attending a funeral or a service, do your best to be on time. Try to enter the facility as quietly as possible. If there are no ushers present, remember that the first few rows of seats are usually for the immediate family and close friends. Acquaintances should appropriately seat themselves in the middle or towards the rear.
WHEN TO VISIT
Immediately upon learning of a death, it is appropriate for family and close friends to go to the home of the bereaved to offer sympathy and support. This can be a very overwhelming time for a family. Offering to assist with child care, food preparation, receiving visitors, or service preparations can provide immense comfort during this difficult process. The funeral home is the best place to visit the family to offer your condolences, as they are prepared for visitors at these services.
